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Should I confess to my spouse, with whom I have been living for twenty-four years, that I no longer love him, but treat him like a brother?


I think that he also guesses about it. Isn't it better for me to leave him so that each of us can improve independently?
You are not mistaken in thinking that your husband is aware of what is happening to you, although perhaps he is not fully aware of this. I see that your relationship suffers to a large extent from your inability to communicate. It even seems to me that you should as soon as possible share with him what you feel for him, and ask him to share his own experiences. You both probably feel the same way. The main thing is that you discuss the situation together.
Will you be happy as you continue to live together, given that your feelings for each other have changed a lot? You could have decided in this way whether you should get a divorce or keep your old relationship.

You also ask if it’s better for you to leave your husband so that each of you can continue to improve on your own. You could achieve a high level of excellence together by learning to accept each other as you are, while at the same time giving more freedom to each other. Do not interfere with each other being yourself. This is the key to your self-improvement.
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Should I confess to my spouse, with whom I have been living for twenty-four years, that I no longer love him, but treat him like a brother?

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