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As a mother, I feel responsible for feeding the children well, because I think that they are too young to take care of their own health. I have three children aged four to nine years. Do you think that this responsibility lies with me?


You are not directly responsible for the health of your children. As a mother, you must be responsible for the consequences of having children, that is, to monitor their material needs, help them with their studies, pass on their knowledge to them, give them love, and all this to the extent that you can. On the other hand, you cannot know in advance what the results will be. You can cook the best dishes in the world, but since health is only 5-10% dependent on food, then your children may still have health problems.
Take the example of a child who is eating healthy and balanced food all the time. He is given tasty food, but often he eats for fear of not liking his mother or in the midst of a family quarrel. A child who eats everything while experiencing a lot of emotions and fears will not easily digest food, since emotions and mental fears have a negative effect on the absorption of the most delicious food.
It is much more important for you to clarify with each of them their needs.
Everyone knows their needs. He knows when he wants to eat, when he does not want to eat and what he wants to eat. Having carefully studied the needs of your children, you feed them with happiness, and this will be much more important for their health. You must trust your children. They are not fools. They know their needs and can deal with themselves, and much better than you think.
More about this you can read in another book, which will be devoted to the problem of nutrition.
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As a mother, I feel responsible for feeding the children well, because I think that they are too young to take care of their own health. I have three children aged four to nine years. Do you think that this responsibility lies with me?

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    First of all, ask your children to give you their definition of indifference. Here is my definition: an indifferent person is a person who doesn’t care anything, who doesn’t feel anything and is not touched by others. Do you really consider yourself an indifferent mother? Do you really believe that? To teach your children to take responsibility - this is the best gift you can give them.
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