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How to help a person who is going to divorce, do not feel guilty? This is a man who has been married for fifteen years and has two children, eight and fifteen years old.


First of all, did this person turn to you for help? This is the most important point that should be checked in any form of assistance relationship. You should also understand that only he himself can truly help himself. His guilt comes from his mental perception. He must choose whether he still wants to feel guilty or wants to learn to accept himself in this divorce. Tell him that he can give himself that right. If he turns to you for help, explain to him that his guilt comes from his perception of the situation and his deep beliefs. Nantes beliefs are very often based on what we were taught in childhood, in family and school. You can also read passages about his feelings of guilt and responsibility directly from this book.
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How to help a person who is going to divorce, do not feel guilty? This is a man who has been married for fifteen years and has two children, eight and fifteen years old.

  1. How should one behave with a sick person who uses his illness to induce love for himself? I feel helpless because I want to help this man, but he does not believe in anything.
    The previous answer extends to this question. Why does a person often feel the need to help others without thinking that it can harm another? A person who decides to help someone, not thinking about what he can do, thinks only about himself. He needs someone's positive result to feel their own significance. Therefore he
  2. How to help the old man who wants to regain the health that he had at the age of twenty? He has been paralyzed for four years. Do doctors blame for this?
    When the problem of physical condition arises, this is not always the fault of the doctors. I admit that medical errors happen and that some doctors negligently harm their patients, and not only physically, but also at other levels. Mistakes can be made in all professions: it is human nature to make mistakes. This is also included in the general plan. The doctor must carry his share
  3. How do I deal with a person who seeks to undermine my faith in myself and make me feel guilty for decisions that it is difficult for him to take responsibility for making?
    The consequences of his decisions seem hard to him, and he would like to hold me responsible for them, as well as for everything that follows them and causes him anxiety. Example: a divorce, initiated by him. From your question, I conclude that this gentleman made the decision to divorce, but then it was difficult for him to come to terms with his own decision. It's hard for him to take on
  4. I am a responsible person, and I consider that my burden is too heavy. What to do to not feel guilty when I can not cope with all the tasks?
    Is the severity that you feel the result of having taken on too many commitments? Have you pledged to yourself or to another person? Perhaps you feel responsible for the happiness of others? If the latter assumption is most likely, then in this book you will find the true definition of responsibility. If you took on too much
  5. My sister has breast cancer, already has metastases. She was treated by the healer, went to prayer sessions, etc. At the present time, she says that she gives herself into the hands of GOD and gradually prepares for death. She has two children, nine and fifteen years old. What can I do as a sister?
    Your sister seems to have already made her choice. If she made a decision, then it is important that you respect him. However, I see that you want to come to her aid, because it is difficult for you to accept her death. It is important for you to clarify what is difficult for you to accept. What do you experience in your soul? The next time you go to her, share your doubts with her, tell her that you have great difficulty in believing in
  6. How to help my children, my ex-husband and his girlfriend to feel at ease at our meetings during holidays, birthdays, etc.? I feel very at ease with his girlfriend, but as soon as we are all together, I feel embarrassed.
    Did you ask your ex-spouse and your children whether your feelings are true? If they say yes, if they really feel awkward, do they want you to help them? I feel in you a woman who shoulders responsibility for the happiness of others. Have you pledged to make sure that they always feel
  7. What happens to a person if he is guilty, but does not give himself the report and does not consider himself guilty? Will he be punished? Will he reap what he has sown?
    Laws apply to everyone, regardless of whether we believe in them or not. For example, if someone drives through a red light and tells the policeman that he doesn’t know the law or that he doesn’t believe in it, this jigit will still have a fine. It is the same with spiritual laws - the law of karma or the law of cause and effect. If a person knows that he is breaking the law, and yet deliberately
  8. How not to feel guilty if the husband constantly shifts his responsibility to me?
    First of all, your spouse cannot pass his responsibility on you. You are probably talking about his obligations. Secondly, has an agreement been reached between you and clearly defined commitments at this level? Who and what decided to do? Your spouse must always be responsible for the consequences of his actions. If he does not want to do anything, it would be nice to check that
  9. Meals for children aged two to six years
    In the San Antonio Zoo here, inscriptions warning visitors not to feed the animals read: “All birds and animals here are scientifically fed, with the right food and in the right amount to ensure their best physical condition. Feeding the public pieces and unnecessary products causes them great harm and is a gross violation, which the zoo's directorate cannot allow. "And
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  11. How to explain to a person you previously needed, that now you can do without him, but so that he does not feel rejected?
    First, you need to check whether this person really feels rejected, or are you afraid that he will feel rejected. This fear of rejection may actually exist only in your imagination. Just tell him that you thank him for all the help he has given you, but that now you feel yourself firmly on his feet to do
  12. What is the difference between “feeling guilty” and “being guilty”?
    To feel guilty is to consider yourself guilty based on our own value system, which, in turn, is determined by our beliefs. Most people tend to consider themselves guilty, although in reality they rarely are. This is because they forget to check whether they really wanted to do evil. They decide they are to blame, so
  13. I have a friend, he is going to divorce and he feels very guilty. How can I help him?
    First of all, find out if he wants help. If so, tell him about your new concept of guilt. Help him find out if he really is guilty, whether he is going to do harm to another, or whether he is simply expressing his limits in relation to the difficulties he is experiencing in a married life. Explain to him that violation of your limits in order to make someone happy
  14. How to help a depressed person?
    Before assisting anyone, it is necessary to check whether a person wants to be helped. People who are in deep depression usually do not want any help. Attempting to help such a person and his refusal to help cause us bitterness and frustration. Most often, these people say: “Leave, go about your business. I am fully capable of adjusting my life myself. I do not
  15. For a short time I had a lover, and I feel guilty that he did not renew his marital relationship with his wife. I feel guilty for everything that was destroyed. How do I get rid of this guilt?
    The relationship between your former lover and his wife does not concern you in any way. What happens between them has nothing to do with you. But, relying on your scale of values, you tell yourself that it is not good to have a relationship with a married man. You must choose one of two things: either to make sure that this does not happen again, because you feel guilty, or to change your
  16. As a mother, I feel responsible for feeding the children well, because I think that they are too young to take care of their own health. I have three children aged four to nine years. Do you think that this responsibility lies with me?
    You are not directly responsible for the health of your children. As a mother, you must be responsible for the consequences of having children, that is, to monitor their material needs, help them with their studies, pass on their knowledge to them, give them love, and all this to the extent that you can. On the other hand, you cannot know in advance what the results will be. You can cook the most
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  18. How can I get rid of the feeling of responsibility for a person dear to me who suffers in his soul? How do I get rid of deep sadness?
    If the sight of a suffering dear person fills you with sadness, then this is because this situation awakens something in you that has long lain under a bushel and what you have tried to avoid. It would be important for you to conduct an internal research to better determine the nature of this sadness. What makes you so sad? It is not by chance that we choose certain people who
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