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How to help a person who is going to get a divorce not feel guilty? This is a man who has been married for fifteen years and has two children of eight and fifteen years old.


First of all, did this person turn to you for help? This is the most important point that should be checked for any form of assistance relationship. You must also understand that only he himself can truly help himself. His guilt comes from his mental perception. He must choose whether he still wants to feel guilty or wants to learn to accept himself in this divorce. Tell him that he can give himself this right. If he turns to you for help, explain to him that his guilt comes from his perception of the situation and his deep beliefs. Nantes beliefs are often based on what we have been taught in childhood, in the family, and in school. You can also read excerpts of guilt and responsibility directly from this book.
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How to help a person who is going to get a divorce not feel guilty? This is a man who has been married for fifteen years and has two children of eight and fifteen years old.

  1. How should one behave with a sick person who uses his illness in order to provoke self-love? I feel helpless because I want to help this man, but he does not believe in anything.
    The previous answer extends to this question. Why does a person often feel the need to help others without thinking that this can harm another? A person who decides to help someone without thinking about what he can do is only think about himself. He needs someone’s positive result to feel his own worth. Therefore he
  2. How to help an old person who wants to regain the health that he had at the age of twenty? He has been paralyzed for four years. Are doctors to blame?
    When a physical problem arises, then the doctors are not always guilty of this. I admit that medical errors occur and that some doctors negligently harm their patients, moreover, not only physically, but also at other levels. Mistakes can be made in all professions: it is human nature to make mistakes. This is also part of the overall plan. The doctor needs to carry his share
  3. How can I behave with a person who seeks to undermine my faith in myself and make me feel guilty for decisions that are difficult for him to take responsibility for?
    The consequences of his decisions seem difficult to him, and he would like to blame me for them, as well as for everything that follows them and causes him concern. Example: a divorce initiated by him. From your question, I conclude that this gentleman decided on a divorce, but then it was difficult for him to come to terms with his own decision. It’s hard for him to take on
  4. I am a responsible person, and I believe that on my shoulders is too heavy a burden. What to do in order not to feel guilty when I can not cope with all the tasks?
    Is the burden you feel a consequence of the fact that you have made too many commitments? Have you committed to yourself or to another person? Perhaps you feel responsible for the happiness of others? If the latter assumption is most likely, then in this book you will find a true definition of responsibility. If you took on too much
  5. My sister has breast cancer, already has metastases. She was treated by a healer, went to prayer sessions, etc. At present, she says that she is giving herself into the hands of GOD and is gradually preparing for death. She has two children of nine and fifteen. What can I do as a sister?
    Your sister, apparently, has already made her choice. If she made a decision, it is important that you respect him. However, I see that you want to come to her aid, because it is difficult for you to accept her death. It is important for you to clarify what is difficult for you to accept. What do you feel in the shower? The next time you go to her, share your doubts with her, tell her that you have great difficulty believing in
  6. How to help my children, my ex-husband and his girlfriend feel at ease at our meetings during the holidays, birthdays, etc.? I feel very at ease with his girlfriend, but as soon as we find ourselves all together, I feel awkward.
    Have you asked your ex-spouse and your children if your feelings are true? If they say yes, if they really feel uncomfortable, do they want you to help them? I feel in you a woman who shoulders responsibility for the happiness of others. Have you made a commitment to ensure that they always feel
  7. What happens to a person if he is guilty, but does not realize himself in this report and does not consider himself guilty? Will he be punished? Will he reap what he sowed?
    Laws apply to everyone regardless of whether we believe in them or not. For example, if someone passes a red light and tells the policeman that he is not aware of the law or that he does not believe in him, this dzhigit will still get a fine. The situation is exactly the same with spiritual laws - the law of karma or the law of cause and effect. If a person knows that he is breaking the law, and yet consciously
  8. How not to feel guilty if the husband constantly shifts his responsibility to me?
    First of all, your spouse cannot pass on his responsibility to you. You are probably talking about his obligations. Secondly, have you already reached an agreement and clearly defined obligations at this level? Who and what is decided to do? Your spouse should always be responsible for the consequences of their actions. If he does not want to do anything, it would be nice to verify that
  9. Nutrition for children aged two to six years
    In the local zoo in San Antonio, inscriptions warning visitors not to feed animals say: “All birds and animals here are fed scientifically sound, the right food and in the right amount to ensure their best physical condition. Feeding by the public pieces and unnecessary products causes them great harm and is a gross violation, which the zoo directorate cannot allow. "
  10. Part 4. Development of an individual medication plan for the long-term treatment of infants, preschool children (up to 5 years old), schoolchildren (5-12 years old) and adolescents (12 years old and older) suffering from bronchial asthma
    A stepwise approach is used to classify AD and prescribe treatment. The volume of drug therapy, if necessary to achieve control of AD, can increase (step up), or decrease (step down) if control is achieved. Persistent AD is more effectively controlled by long-term treatment to suppress inflammation and reverse its development,
  11. How to explain to the person you previously needed that now you can do without him, but so that he does not feel rejected?
    First, you need to check whether this person really feels rejected, or whether you are afraid that he will feel rejected. This fear of rejection may only really exist in your imagination. Just tell him that you thank him for all the help he has given you, but that now you feel strong enough to stand on your feet to manage
  12. What is the difference between feeling guilty and being guilty?
    To feel guilty means to consider yourself guilty based on our own system of values, which, in turn, is determined by our beliefs. Most people tend to consider themselves guilty, although in reality they rarely are. This is because they forget to check if they really wanted to do harm. They decide they are to blame, so
  13. I have a friend, he is going to get a divorce and feels very guilty. How can I help him?
    First of all, find out if he wants help. If so, tell him about your new concept of guilt. Help him find out if he really is to blame, whether he is going to harm another, or if he simply expresses his limits in relation to the difficulties he is experiencing in a married life. Explain to him that breaking your limits in order to please someone
  14. How to help a person who is depressed?
    Before providing assistance to anyone, it is necessary to check whether a person wants to be helped. People in deep depression usually do not want any help. An attempt to help such a person and his refusal to help causes us bitterness and disappointment. Most often, such people say: “Leave, go about your business. I am quite capable of independently adjusting my life. I do not
  15. I had a lover for a short time, and I feel guilty for not renewing the conjugal relationship with his wife. I feel guilty for everything that was destroyed. How can I free myself from this guilt?
    The relationship between your former lover and his wife does not concern you in any way. What happens between them has nothing to do with you. But, based on your scale of values, you tell yourself that it is not good to have a relationship with a married man. You must choose one of two things: either make sure that this does not happen again, because you feel guilty, or change your
  16. As a mother, I feel responsible for feeding the children well, because I believe that they are still too small to take care of their own health. I have three children aged four to nine years. Do not you think that this responsibility lies with me?
    You are not directly responsible for the health of your children. As a mother, you should be responsible for the consequences of giving birth to children - that is, to monitor their material needs, to help them learn, to transfer their knowledge to them, to give them love, and all this to the extent that you can do. On the other hand, you cannot know in advance what the results will be. You can cook the most
  17. The main psychological neoplasms of a person aged 13-17 years
    Neoplasms According to a psychological study in 1927. According to a psychological study in 1987. 1. Puberty. The natural roots of a developing person; appears ripening his new appearance. This is the rebirth of man. A huge amount of any ailments originates at this age. The birth of a new psyche is “suddenly” revealed inwardness.
  18. How can I free myself from responsibility for my dear person who suffers in my soul? How can I get rid of deep sadness?
    If the sight of a suffering, dear person fills you with sorrow, then this is because this situation awakens something in you that has been hidden for a long time and which you tried to avoid. It would be important for you to conduct an internal study to better determine the nature of this sadness. What makes you so sad? It’s no coincidence that we choose certain people who
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