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How can you say that everything that happens to us is caused by an internal cause? I stopped at a red light, and at that time another car hit me from behind. How can I be the cause of this?


Currently, due to our great lack of awareness, it is very difficult to know exactly the internal cause of each accident (or consequence) in our outer world. Take an example of your accident. Even if your awareness is not enough to remember what you were thinking about at the time of the accident, or to understand the cause of the accident. I suggest you start your own investigation, starting from this accident.
You noticed that each reaction has an external consequence, that this effect becomes the cause of another effect, and so on. If you get out of your car in anger and tell nonsense to another driver, then such a reaction can lead to a fight. As a result of a fight, your arm may be broken. Due to a broken arm, you may be temporarily incapacitated. A fit of anger caused by this temporary disability can cause stomach ulcers. Moreover, the fact that you do not accept this accident can cause another more serious accident in order to arouse in you the need to return to love.
If you calmly react to an accident, then as a result of your peace of mind, this whole story can be very easily settled. The one who crashed into you may be a useful person for you. Who knows?! Your peace of mind can also be a great lesson for someone who crashed into you.
Your behavior can cause a calm reaction from someone else when you yourself become the cause of any accident.
As you can see, the law of cause and effect is a sequence of successive reactions. He acts continuously. As you become more conscious, it will be easier and easier for you to understand the phase of the cause of any consequence. The main thing is not to blame yourself and not feel guilty. The law of cause and effect does not exist to make our lives miserable. It exists only so that we understand what great creators we are. When a person realizes that he has done something unfavorable for himself, then instead of blaming himself, he says to himself: “Well done. “I just learned through this experience that such a behavior, a course of action, or a decision is not beneficial for me.” Opening himself to his inner wisdom, he can thus use every experience to improve the quality of his life. Moreover, he knows that sometimes he can go astray during this great journey, which is life on Earth. But he also knows very well that with the help of love he can once again find his right path.
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How can you say that everything that happens to us is caused by an internal cause? I stopped at a red light, and at that time another car hit me from behind. How can I be the cause of this?

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