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How to make a husband buy clothes?
If I hadn’t done this, he would never have bought it. He says that this is not necessary and that he has so much of her that there is no place to go. And he also says that new clothes are too expensive and that this is money thrown to the wind. He always has plenty of excuses, just to not buy new clothes. He wears things for ten years, or even more.
I realized that for your husband new clothes are not the main thing. You, on the contrary, seem to attach great importance to this. All his arguments suggest that you should pay attention to his habit, which he “borrowed” from his father or mother.
If it is important for you that your husband wear beautiful new clothes, then you must accept the fact that it is not so important for him and that you will have to buy him again. Do not be mistaken and understand that, choosing him clothes, you do not please him, but to yourself.
You can tell him, for example: “I understand that it is not important for you to dress nicely, but this is important for me. Do you mind if I give myself pleasure buying you clothes to your taste? In my heart, I understand that I am doing this for myself, since you don’t care. If you want to please me, why don't you wear the clothes I buy? ”
Agree that in this situation there is a pleasant side: your husband will always be dressed according to your taste. It is only important to be able to see everything and a good side.
How to be when one of the partners is neat organized, and the other, rather, its opposite? How to behave in order to avoid irritation and quarrels?
You have no such partner by chance. He was near you in order to reflect that side of your being, which you deny, but which you would like to manifest from time to time - to be not so neat.
Of course, you sometimes have to fear because of your own pedantry. Why don't you allow yourself to be less organized sometimes - and watch yourself at the same time.
How do you feel in this experiment?
One part of your partner's being is also nice when everything lies in its place, but he has not come to terms with this side of his nature. Sometimes, he must even force himself to be unorganized, but, I am sure, he is pleased when the house is clean and tidy. You must find a middle ground.
Perhaps, for starters, try to take extreme measures: choose a day and do not clean the apartment. Do it as an experiment and observe how the husband will behave when he returns from work and see bedlam in the house.
Ask how he feels. Tell him that you are striving to learn to accept yourself as you are, and for this you would like to make sure that you also have a certain tendency to carelessness. I am sure that you prefer order in everything and that it would be difficult for you to live in a house in which there is a constant mess.
I am not saying that you should be sloppy. I only advise you to allow yourself from time to time not to pay attention to the mess in the house, to control everything less and to be less upset because something is not yours.
If your partner will still be careless, and you can not tolerate a mess, then you have nothing left but to put everything in order, knowing that you are doing this for yourself, for your own pleasure.
You could openly declare that you decided to come to terms with his carelessness and that for this you need from time to time to show some carelessness to order in the house. If he agrees, then you could conclude a contract: he will, for example, be more careful in some rooms or at least once a week to clean the apartment. Only frank dialogue will help you find an acceptable solution for both.
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