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It’s hard for me to accept the idea that we choose our parents. I read about this in your first book and I must admit to you that I still can’t understand this. I am an adopted child and I always want to see my real mother. Why did I choose a mother who decided to leave me?


To learn to love despite being abandoned. Since we always reap what we sow, an abandoned child is usually a soul who somehow abandoned her child in her previous life. Apparently, this is your case. Forgiving your biological mother that she left you, you automatically forgive yourself.
To do this, you need an open heart, a lot of love and sympathy. You must acknowledge that your mother acted best in accordance with her knowledge and her limits at that moment of her life. Rejecting, we are truly expressing our limits. When you give up further attempts to understand your mother’s action and rely on your inner GOD, you will find inner peace. Your inner GOD knows what is good for your development.
You may still wish to meet your biological mother, agreeing in advance that the end result of your desire should be left to the discretion of your inner GOD. If this meeting is beneficial for both of you, then it will happen sooner or later. If not, then this is just a delayed batch. You will definitely meet this soul during the next incarnation or between two lives in the astral world where souls live.
What should be done when injustice is laid at the level of responsibilities? I work in the office with another secretary, and we do about the same job, but I work twice as much as she does, and we have the same salary. She calls on her personal affairs and is often late for work. And the main part of the work always goes to me.
How do I act so that my boss understands the situation?
You must always remember that you are here on Earth in order to improve yourself. You have made a commitment to do certain work for your boss, and your boss has committed to pay you a certain salary in exchange for your services. Your obligation is respected on both sides.
If the other secretary does not fulfill her duties, then this applies only to her. And on occasion she will reap her own; the problem, therefore, exists between her and the boss and has nothing to do with you. You have a great opportunity to learn how to evaluate what is important to you. If you think that you are not getting a fair salary for your work, meet with your boss to discuss a possible salary increase.
It will be much easier for you to get what you want if you use the amount of work you do to substantiate your request, rather than comparing yourself with another secretary who does less work. Comparing yourself with someone else is the wrong way to achieve your goal. I advise you to use yourself as a starting point for comparison. For example, compare yourself today with what you want to become, what you have with what you want to have. This is not a miraculous way, but it will be easier for you to determine your needs in this way, to set goals closer to your reality.
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It’s hard for me to accept the idea that we choose our parents. I read about this in your first book and I must admit to you that I still can’t understand this. I am an adopted child and I always want to see my real mother. Why did I choose a mother who decided to leave me?

  1. When I, the mother of the family, allow the children to take responsibility, I get the feeling that I am an indifferent mother who does not give a damn about her children. I am afraid that they will also judge me when they grow up. What is the reason for this fear?
    First of all, ask your children to give you their definition of indifference. Here is my definition: an indifferent person is a person who does not care about anything, who does not feel anything and who is not touched by others. Do you really consider yourself an indifferent mother? Do you really believe that? Teaching your children to take responsibility is the best gift you can give them.
  2. I would like to know what I can learn from my mother. It makes me experience emotions - in the sense that it always contradicts me. She is negatively inclined and always says that I will not be able to achieve success in the business I have begun.
    Judging by your question, I see that you blame your mother for your own emotions. I emphasize once again that a person cannot be held responsible for anyone's emotions. Only you are responsible for your emotions, that is, for your reaction to the words or deeds of your mother. You may not agree with what she tells you, but it’s important that you feel that she is acting like her
  3. I really want to keep my current family, but I suddenly realized that my husband always decides everything for me and for the children.
    He is always right in everything, and I constantly suffer from the fact that I can’t achieve self-affirmation. What personality trait do I not accept? If the spouse always decides everything for you and does not take into account your opinion, then this means that you do not want to come to terms with your feminine principle. The same thing happens with your spouse. If he is convinced that his wife needs to be led, then this indicates that
  4. I believe that giving birth to children is a big responsibility. It can even be called a lifetime contract. When I think I can hurt them, I feel bad. What do I need to do to think differently?
    Change your beliefs. Firstly, when you decide to have a baby, you should not think that you are responsible for his happiness. Your first motivation should be the desire to enable the soul to return in order to be embodied. It is a gift of self. Then, to continue your growth, you must learn to love this soul that has chosen you. Having a baby is
  5. As a mother, I feel responsible for feeding the children well, because I believe that they are still too small to take care of their own health. I have three children aged four to nine years. Do not you think that this responsibility lies with me?
    You are not directly responsible for the health of your children. As a mother, you should be responsible for the consequences of giving birth to children - that is, to monitor their material needs, to help them learn, to transfer their knowledge to them, to give them love, and all this to the extent that you can do. On the other hand, you cannot know in advance what the results will be. You can cook the most
  6. I always keep my promises, and it’s very difficult for me to come to terms with the fact that others do not keep their word.
    This often happens: my children promise to clean up after themselves and leave home without doing this; or my husband promises to go shopping instead of me and forgets to do it. I often find myself in a situation where others do not keep my word. Why is this happening to me? You say that you always keep your promises. Maybe there are times when you don’t do it, but don’t realize it.
  7. My mother told me that nipple inflammation always happens and that you just have to put up with it.
    Like many other women, your mother suffered in vain. Inflammation of the nipples can and should be prevented. In most cases, they are a sign of improper attachment to the chest. The baby sucks only the nipple, causing friction and causing harm, instead of sucking the breast in a wavy action that cannot damage the nipple. Approximately 90% of problems are caused by incorrect
  8. My wife goes to work. She never loved doing household chores, I know that and always knew that. I also go to work. Since we got married, maintaining order in the house constantly falls on me. It starts to bother me. We both go to work, and how can I explain to her that for the maintenance of cleanliness in the house she bears the same responsibility as I do?
    Did you make a clear commitment before deciding to live together? Maybe you made a commitment to do household chores by telling her, for example: “No problem. Will I do this? And now you are responsible for the consequences of your decision. However, if at present it has become too difficult for you, you must tell your spouse about it. Ask her
  9. What to do when I want to talk with my husband, but he doesn’t?
    I get the impression that I'm talking to a wall. Because of this, I very often refrain from talking to him. When a person completely closes in himself, this indicates his fear of losing self-control. In men, as a rule, it is a fear of showing their sensitivity and vulnerability. Outwardly, they look calm, restrain their emotions, thereby wanting to impress the person,
  10. I had a lover for a short time, and I feel guilty for not renewing the relationship with his wife. I feel guilty for everything that was destroyed. How can I free myself from this guilt?
    The relationship between your former lover and his wife does not concern you in any way. What happens between them has nothing to do with you. But, based on your scale of values, you tell yourself that it is not good to have a relationship with a married man. You must choose one of two things: either make sure that this does not happen again, because you feel guilty, or change your
  11. You said that the child has a role to play. What can he do?
    The child has a very important role. Immediately after birth, a healthy baby has the strength and ability [4] to crawl along his mother’s stomach, find his chest and poke his nose and lick his mother’s nipple. The time will come and he will open his mouth and begin to suck. If no one bothers the baby and he is next to his mother, he will look for breasts and suck every time he gets hungry. Corporeal
  12. I am an unmarried woman and live alone. My elderly parents often get sick. My mother calls me selfish when I refuse to come to her as soon as she needs help. Am I responsible for my parents? Do I always have to help them?
    Your heart knows the answer to this question, but your mind disputes it. No child is responsible for the happiness or well-being of their parents. However, a certain part of you believes that you are responsible for them, and it is quite possible that you yourself consider yourself selfish. You are undoubtedly influenced by your parents, who believe that a good, appreciative daughter owes,
  13. But if I can’t just show you the final picture, why don’t I combine it with raccase?
    The most important part of this story (and for me from a personal and professional point of view, one of the most breakthrough moments in the whole book) is not at all related to how the final prototype looked *. The breakthrough came about thanks to the pictures drawn by the team - the very pictures that we just discussed in such detail. As in the story with McKinsey and Lego, at first I was afraid to show these
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