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Why do you need to make a commitment to other people? Isn’t it easier to wait until the last minute and make a decision guided by the impulse of the moment? Then it would not have to be released from the obligation.


None of the laws say that you must certainly make a commitment. You just need to see what you like and what you want to reap in your life. When you turn to someone for help, when you invite a friend to visit or want to go to the movies with another person, and he constantly says to you: “I don’t know yet, I’ll tell you about it at the last minute”, then how do you like this answer?
If so, then you do not need an obligation, and even in your close relationship with someone. If the other person does not want to make a commitment to live with you, to love you or to maintain a relationship based on fidelity with you, and it suits you and you do not see any inconvenience in this, then this means that you can live the rest of your life assuming obligations. You should check what you really want and what makes you happy in life.
Some argue that a pre-made commitment prevents them from living the present moment. Suppose you were invited to a friends meeting, which will take place in three weeks. You tell the person: “I will think about it. I will give you an answer on the day this meeting takes place, as I live my present moment. ”
Do not flatter yourself. You are not in the present moment now. You ask yourself today if you want to do this in three weeks. The moment you answer, you are already moving yourself three weeks in advance.
A person living his present moment, having received an invitation, will most likely immediately ask himself what to answer.
He says to himself: “Right now, right now, do I want to accept this invitation?” If the answer is yes, then he accepts the invitation, giving himself the right to be released from the obligation, if suddenly something prevents him.
Or consider an example of a person who does not want to make a commitment in an intimate relationship: he is afraid that this relationship will not last long, and thinks that if he does not make a commitment, he will suffer less. In reality, the opposite is happening. Without making a commitment, he really does not try to achieve the normal development of relations with a partner. When there is an obligation, then everything is clear in your soul and you know where you are going.
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Why do you need to make a commitment to other people? Isn’t it easier to wait until the last minute and make a decision guided by the impulse of the moment? Then it would not have to be released from the obligation.

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