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I always thought that the appearance, appearance of a person does not matter, that the main thing in a person is his inner beauty.

Recently I met a man who I really like, but to reconcile with his appearance is beyond my strength. I don’t know what to do. How to relate to him?
You thought that appearance does not matter, because you yourself wanted to convince yourself of this. Now you understand that you were not sincere with yourself. If you are convinced that the appearance of a person is important to you, then simply agree with this. Agree and that one side of your being attaches importance to the appearance of a person. You believe in it, and it is important for you.
It is no coincidence that you met a man whose appearance you do not like. This provokes a negative attitude in you, and you appeal to that side of your "I", which attaches great importance to the appearance of a person.
Allow yourself to consider that appearance is important, and as soon as you do this, talk about it with your man. Tell him that you understand that appearance is more important to you than you previously thought.
Ask how he relates to this. If you really are not able to accept his appearance, then you have a choice: either he goes towards you and changes his appearance, or you accept his current appearance, but watch your own, sticking to your tastes. However, allow yourself at least occasionally some negligence in appearance.
Agree that for others it is not as important as for you. If it’s really unpleasant for you to be near a man whose appearance does not suit you, then no one is imposing this on you. Remember, however, that sooner or later you will have to solve this problem.
In the meantime, work on yourself - try to develop a certain tolerance in yourself. Be less demanding of yourself, do not assume that everyone thinks the same way you do, and that people will judge you by your appearance.
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