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What does a psychologist pay money for?

If something broke in the soul, lost its rhythm, it hurts - with this where and to whom? To friends-girlfriends - well, it helps ... And if not already? If constantly the same rake, the same pits?

But if the car breaks down, it is driven away to the service, and it is hardly a shame to turn to a professional. Repaired, tucked-lacquered - as new becomes. Money paid for the work, and ride at your pleasure.

And to the psychologist ashamed to contact. Here, the definition of “help” immediately puts a weak person who has turned into a position ... Moreover, a weak soul, and the mind, it seems, too ... Like, the psychologist will understand your soul better than you (if he promises it - in this place he lies, and he also wants money for your lies get).

Thus, it often turns out that to turn to a psychologist = sign on your weakness. And all of us have been told since childhood, especially boys, it is a shame to be weak! You must be strong!

And it’s still more difficult for men because psychologists are mostly women ... At first, confessing their difficulties to a woman and then paying money for sympathy is too much !!

And even if you have overcome your doubts, then how to choose from a huge number of proposals the one who really facilitates, supports, calms, tells?

Difficult task ... But doable.

The psychologist is a master who, together with you, repairs, tightens and varnishes, or, more precisely, insures you and ensures the safety of your repairs, supplies you with the tools you need and monitors network voltage. The hour with the psychologist you pay belongs to you. During this time, all the tools of a psychologist are at your disposal, and he himself works exclusively for you - delves into your material, analyzes your experience, focuses you on the nuances of your tasks, looks for a way out of a problem with which you find it difficult to cope with you.
Such participation, at first glance, is similar to parental support. However, in fact, working with a psychologist is very different from communicating with parents in childhood. Than?

1. When mom and dad taught you how to live, they - basically - tailored you in their own image and likeness, introduced restraints of behavior by means of punishments-incentives, imposed their own system of life coordinates. The psychologist is far from such ideas. Tips, strong recommendations, directives - the parental arsenal of education - is radically different from the tools of a psychologist. He accepts you as you are today, without imposing your categories “good-bad” to you, with respect to your life path and to your adult part.

2. If your current problems are rooted in deep childhood, a psychologist will analyze your child-parent relationship with you and will use all means to help get rid of outdated prohibitions and fears that prevent you from now enjoying yourself and your life.

3. The psychologist together with you is interested in developing your creative attitude to your abilities and to life in general, to free you from the shell of straining habits.

4. If in your childhood there was not enough security and love, the participation of a psychologist will help you to restore a sense of security and belief that you are loved.

The money you pay to a psychologist indicates the limit of your interaction. If you complain about life for free - you just ship your own problems with another, if you work with a psychologist - you pay for his qualified participation in solving your problems.
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