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Can I read or write excerpts from books about illnesses and illnesses to help a person realize what he suffers?
What is the cause of natural disasters, infections, epidemics, famine, etc., in a certain place or district, if, in your words, the people living there do not bear responsibility for this?
I have great difficulties with the concept of responsibility. I was beaten, and I suffered all kinds of hardships. I think I was not always to blame.
I am a responsible person, and I believe that my burden is too heavy. What should I do not to feel guilty when I can not cope with all the tasks?
What to do with people who do not want to help themselves, but prefer to scold others for their difficulties and illnesses? What if they get angry when they are given advice and recommendations?
How should one behave with a sick person who uses his illness in order to evoke love for himself? I feel helpless, because I want to help this person, but he does not believe in anything.
How to explain to the person you needed before, that now you can do without him, but that he does not feel rejected at the same time?
How should I behave with a man who seeks to undermine my faith in myself and cause me to feel guilty for decisions that it is difficult for him to take responsibility for making?
How can I get rid of the sense of responsibility for a person who is dear to me, who suffers in the soul? How can I get rid of deep sadness?
How can a small child be held responsible for his illness, especially in infancy, when he can not reap what he did not even have time to sow?
At work on me is a great burden of responsibility. I am in charge of management, in which 30 employees work. And I have specific tasks in front of me. I must constantly monitor the fulfillment of these tasks. How can I be responsible for so many employees without experiencing stress and without considering it a heavy burden?
As a mother, I feel responsible for feeding children well, because I think that they are too young to take care of their own health. I have three children between the ages of four and nine. Do not you think that this responsibility lies with me?
I believe that giving birth to children is a big responsibility. This can even be called a lifelong contract. When I think I can cause them suffering, I feel bad. What do I need to do to think differently?
If I allow my teenage daughter to walk late at night and she suddenly becomes pregnant or addicted to drugs, I will feel guilty. What should I do? Maybe I'm too overbearing father?
What happens to a person if he is guilty, but does not give himself a report and does not consider himself guilty? Will he be punished? Will he reap what he sowed?
In my family, I do everything: home, food, children, their upbringing, their education. I do not understand why all of this should be done only by me. My husband says that when a woman does everything, it's in the order of things. But after all, he is responsible for this, is not it?
My husband and son wake up in the morning. I have to wake them up several times. The end is that I shout them up from the bed so that my husband is not late for work and my son for school. What should I do not to feel responsible for their being late?
When I, the mother of the family, let the children take responsibility, I have the feeling that I am an indifferent mother who does not care about her children. I'm afraid that they will also judge me when they grow up. What is the cause of this fear?
I would like to know what I can learn from my mother. It makes me experience emotions - in the sense that it always contradicts me. She is negative mood and always says that I will not be able to succeed in the business started.
My wife goes to work. She never liked to do household chores, I know it and I always knew it. I also go to work. Since we got married, I'm constantly being kept in the house. It starts to bore me. We both go to work, and how can I explain to her what maintenance of cleanliness in the house she bears the same responsibility as I do?
How can I become indifferent to the sufferings of my ex-wife, without feeling guilty? She is currently suffering from cancer and is also experiencing severe mental suffering.
Because of unsuccessful love, I developed a psychosomatic disease, namely urinary incontinence. How do I understand my responsibility for this and how to get rid of this disease?
How to help an old man who wants to regain his health, which he had at the age of twenty? He has been paralyzed for four years. Is this the fault of the doctors?
When I go out alone or with a friend, my husband always condemns me or sulks at me. Sometimes I still go out for a walk, but sometimes I do not. Anyway, I feel not at ease. If I go out for a walk, then I feel guilty. If I do not go out for a walk, I feel unhappy. I know that I give in to guilt, but I can not help myself. What do i do?
How to help a person who is going to get divorced, do not feel guilty? It's about a man who is married for fifteen years and has two children of eight and fifteen.
My sister has breast cancer, already there are metastases. She was treated by a sorceress, went to prayer sessions, etc. Currently she says that she is giving herself into the hands of GOD and gradually preparing for death. She has two children of nine and fifteen. What can I do as a sister?
My mother has been in the psychiatric institute for more than a year, waiting for her to be admitted to the hospital. Since I am the only person through whom she communicates with the outside world, I feel obliged to take care of her. Except for the trust that it gives me, what gift can I get from this situation? Our relationship has never been close, in fact there is simply no such relationship.
How to help my children, my ex-husband and his girlfriend feel at ease at our meetings during the holidays, birthdays, etc.? I feel very at ease with his girlfriend, but as soon as we are together, I feel uncomfortable.
You say that if a person does not want to be helped, then you should not force him. And what do you say about Jesus, who raised Lazarus and restored sight to the blind man?
I find it difficult to accept the idea that we choose our parents. I read about this in your first book and I must admit that I still can not understand it. I am a foster child, and I always want to see my real mother. Why did I choose a mother who decided to leave me?
I am one of those people who are always afraid of offending others. I too quickly agree when someone comes to me for help. Then I regret it and do not know how to get out of the situation.
Why it is necessary to take an obligation towards other people? Is it not easier to wait until the last minute and make a decision, guided by the motivation of the moment? Then it would not be necessary to be released from the obligation.
At the moment I have a friend with whom we have been meeting for a year and I am ready to commit myself to maintaining relations with him on a long-term basis. But he says that he is not ready, that he is afraid to take upon himself the obligation.
I always keep my promises, and it is very difficult for me to accept the fact that others do not keep their word.
I had a short time as a lover, and I feel guilty that he did not resume marital relations with his wife. I feel guilty for everything that was destroyed. How can I get rid of this guilt?
Recently they robbed me, and I do not understand how this can come from me, given that I have never stolen anything from anyone. I await your explanations.
I live alone. Very often I get up at night to eat a piece of cake with a glass of milk. I do not understand why I'm tiptoing and try not to make noise. Maybe because I feel guilty?
I am an unmarried woman and live alone. My elderly parents are often sick. My mother calls me selfish when I refuse to come to her immediately, as soon as she needs help. Do I bear responsibility for my parents? Do I always need to help them?
How can you say that everything that happens to us is caused by an internal cause? I stopped at the red light, and at that time another car hit me from behind. How can I be the cause of this?
I often feel guilty for being so happy with my husband, whereas my parents were never happy together.