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Myth number 1. I do not have time to watch for myself, and in general it is harmful for the child


It's a bullshit! We imagine "rules for young mothers" like "you can not get your hair cut or dyed" when laziness prevents you from straightening yourself up.

Many girls have parents - a grandmother and grandfather, who can sit with the child, when you need to do a manicure.
My parents are far away, I could afford a nanny, - it's not an extravagantly expensive service.
In the end, there are friends or neighbors. But you can not, I repeat, you can not walk at all with a clod with your nails torn off and without a hair.
In extreme cases, go to the beauty salon with a child. I give a one hundred percent guarantee that a young mother with a baby will serve more and better than usual. Once I went to the pedicure with Marusia: for two hours we became the center of the universe.
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Myth number 1. I do not have time to watch for myself, and in general it is harmful for the child

  1. Myth number 2. I breast-feed the baby, I can not lose weight
    I nursed Marusya, but not for very long. A nursing mother usually has a strict diet. You can not eat anything harmful - red, hot, sweet, Chinese food, fast food. If all this is honestly excluded, cook yourself vegetables and meat for a couple and cereals in milk, weight loss should occur naturally. But many do not work. Why? It is believed that when a woman
  2. My wife goes to work. She never liked to do household chores, I know it and I always knew it. I also go to work. Since we got married, I'm constantly being kept in the house. It starts to bore me. We both go to work, and how can I explain to her what maintenance of cleanliness in the house she bears the same responsibility as I do?
    Did you make a clear commitment before you decided to live together? Maybe you made a commitment to do household chores, telling her, for example: "No problem. Will I do this? And now you are responsible for the consequences of the decision you made. However, if this is now too difficult for you, it is necessary to tell your wife about it. Ask her,
  3. Myth number 4. I do not have time to move, and in general I recently gave birth
    Regardless of your social status, be prepared mentally: in order to lose weight, you will have to force yourself to physical stress. More about them I'll talk about in the next chapters. Here, I just note that to begin with, try just to move more. I foresee: there will be people who will say that this is impossible. I, too, not so long ago gave birth. Pregnancy I spent in almost constant
  4. What does this mean for the baby - breastfeeding?
    How do you like the fact that you are giving your child a gift that can raise his IQ by about 10 points; can improve the work of the heart, intestines and almost all other organs of your child; Reduce the risk of life-threatening and debilitating diseases, such as diabetes; and help your child avoid many of the usual problems for infants, such as ear infections, disorders
  5. Myth number 3. I can not lose weight - I have suffered so much recently
    You have finished breastfeeding. Now it's time to take care of yourself, to bring yourself into a form close to prenatal. But something stops. Furthermore. When you no longer have an "official" reason to overeat "for the sake of the child," you begin to feel sorry for yourself, unhappy: "I have limited myself so much during pregnancy and feeding. And now the diet? Well, no, at first I'll tear myself away, as it should, and then
  6. I believe that giving birth to children is a big responsibility. This can even be called a lifelong contract. When I think I can cause them suffering, I feel bad. What do I need to do to think differently?
    Change your beliefs. First, when you make the decision to have a baby, then you should not think that you are responsible for his happiness. Your first motivation should be the desire to allow the soul to return to be incarnated. It is a gift of oneself. Then, to continue growing, you need to learn how to love this soul, which chose you. To have a child is
  7. What can I do with myself so that in the foreground I have a husband, not children?
    Now I love them so much that before thinking about my husband, I think about them. You demand from yourself the impossible. Inside you there is a conflict between the role of the spouse and the role of the mother. Perhaps you overlooked that you are primarily a woman? As for your relationship with your spouse, they are hampered by the fact that in the foreground you always have children, not him. Between feelings for children and feelings for her husband should not
  8. Someone told me that breastfeeding prevents pregnancy, but maybe it's all just talk?
    Exclusive breastfeeding reduces the risk that you will become pregnant. During the first six months, until you have started menstruating and while you are completely breastfeeding day and night, you are 98% protected from pregnancy. This is tantamount to protection with the help of other modern contraceptives. From the next section ("How is breastfeeding going on?")
  9. Myth 9. It is necessary to wipe the child with alcohol if he has a temperature
    In children, alcohol is absorbed by the lungs, and children are very sensitive even to a small amount of alcohol. With the right approach, you should give the medicine recommended at a temperature, and if the temperature is very high, it is worthwhile to call an ambulance
  10. Feed on demand of the child. What it is?
    You can often hear from a nursing mother: "I feed on demand, my baby requires breast every 3.5 hours." Or: "I always fed on demand. In a year we had already 1 feeding in the evening, and my child quietly refused the breast. " Before talking about the demand of a child, it is necessary to find out what is meant by modern women, when they say - "I breastfeed". Modern moms believe
  11. Correct application of the baby to the breast. What it is?
    When I start talking about the correct and wrong application of the baby to the chest, I often hear this phrase: "What do you mean? Is it possible to suck the breast wrong? "Most of the time I hear this question from medical workers. Especially I was frustrated at the beginning of my activity as a breastfeeding consultant, when I heard this phrase from the medical staff
  12. How can I get rid of the sense of responsibility for a person who is dear to me, who suffers in the soul? How can I get rid of deep sadness?
    If the sight of an afflicted dear person fills you with sadness, it is because this situation awakens in you something that has been lying for a long time under a chaos and what you have tried to avoid. It would be important for you to conduct an internal study in order to better determine the nature of this sadness. What makes you so sad? It is no coincidence that we choose certain people who
  13. Because of unsuccessful love, I developed a psychosomatic disease, namely urinary incontinence. How do I understand my responsibility for this and how to get rid of this disease?
    Begin by agreeing that this physical illness is sent to help you understand that your reaction to unsuccessful love is unfit for you. The responsible person is one who admits and recognizes that his physical problem is caused by his mode of existence, by what he internally experiences. Urinary incontinence is usually caused by loss of control on the physical and emotional
  14. For whom is this all done?
    size = 3 face = "Times New Roman"> What is the "I"? We described the desires of Id, the satisfaction of which delights the individual. We have described how the Superego directs the actions of the Ego and punishes the individual for his sins. We have examined how the ego, sandwiched between these two forces, must guide "us" amid the dangers of the outside world. For whom do all work
  15. How to let my wife know that I'm suffocating from his proprietary feelings towards me? How can I do this without hurting his pride?
    The first thing that catches your eye on your question: you want your spouse to understand something. You, no doubt, have a false idea that "to understand is to love." You believe that if you manage to gently let him know that you're suffocating, then he will love you more. You are deeply mistaken. And not much depends on what tactics you choose. You should not do anything
  16. The recommended composition and content of the "Report on the inventory of emissions of harmful (polluting) substances in the atmospheric air and their sources for the enterprise"
    "Report on the inventory of emissions of harmful (polluting) substances into the air and their sources for the enterprise" (hereinafter referred to as the "Inventory Report") should include the following sections: - Cover page; - Information about the developer and the list of performers; - Abstract; - Contents. Introduction. 1. General information about the company. 2. Brief description of the technological process
  17. Settlement instruction. Specific indicators of the formation of harmful substances released into the atmosphere from the main types of technological equipment for enterprises of the radio-electronic complex, 2006
    Acts instead of the methodology "Normative indicators of specific emissions of harmful substances into the atmosphere from the main types of technological equipment of the enterprises of the industry (Kharkov, 1991)". The archive includes the methodology and letters of the Institute of Atmosphere for its explanation. This calculation instruction (methodology) is intended to determine the qualitative and quantitative composition of emissions of harmful substances from the main
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