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While I was trying to understand what had happened to me and how to get me back in shape, the journalists dubbed me bbw. I almost sobbed over every such article. If it were not for my friends, I would not have survived two years of terrible torment for nothing.
My close friends Nastya and Karina have long been my family. We are even called the Three-headed Dragon! This group nickname was invented at work, and she went to the people, because it very accurately reflects the essence of our friendship. And colleagues, friends, and readers of our blogs say that we are really like a fairy-tale Serpent Gorynych: like three persons, and like - a single whole.
Since Nastya we have known for a long time, since the times when I was just starting my career and trying to get on the screen with all the truths and crooks. My bosom friend worked as an editor in a television holding company, and then began to work in the team "House-2". Then we became friends.
At first they talked about work issues, stayed after filming, discussed what and how to broadcast, improved my image. Then a couple of times they collided in cafes and clubs and realized that it makes no sense to go to these places separately, we must hang out together. It turned out that we have much in common: a cheerful character, persistence in achieving goals and, of course, dreams of family and children. We were always together: talking on the set, spending time in the evenings, and as soon as we parted at home, the esemesques began to scribble to each other. Just could not "separate" from each other, every minute a desire to call, talk about some kind of adventure and ask for advice.
After some time they agreed to rent an apartment together. I must say that it was a wise decision - now the friendly support has become much more tangible. Nastin optimism more than once rescued me in moments when it seemed that against the fat Borodina the whole white world was up in arms.
One evening I was browsing the news on the Internet and for some reason I went to a forum whose visitors actively discussed "Dom-2". Nastya returned home and found a sad picture: I'm sitting by the laptop and roaring in three streams.
- Ksush, but what in our apartment has the dampness divorced? So in fact, the mold can spread over the wallpaper.
- I, I ... I can not any more! Nastya! So many things ...
I even thought it was hard to get together, and I just turned the laptop around so my girlfriend could see everything with her own eyes. Anastasia with the inherent efficiency of her assessment of the scale of the disaster and began to restore order. In my head - in the first place.
- You, my dear, after each pair of photos you will not suffer in the most successful foreshortenings? You must understand that a public person must accept that everyone is up to him. Ksiukha, get used to it.
All the paparazzi stars are photographed in shorts in a terrible pose, and then they write: "Look at how her belly sticks out." You have to live with this always, so you have to learn to accept the reality in which you are criticized, and not always justified!
- Nastya, you're right, as always, but I'm trying so hard. I just do not understand where people get so much anger, aggression, desire to touch ...
- Well, how? Simply put yourself in their place.
- Yes, I can not! I can hardly imagine that it's possible to write and talk like that about an absolutely unfamiliar person!
What have I done to them all ?!
- Yes, in fact nothing, just you are a young and successful girl who fulfilled her dream and got on the most steep canal in the world. These scribes simply envy you or they have nothing to do. Imagine, people who with such passion interfere in the life of the stars, sit at their monitors - ugly, hunchbacked and bow-legged, but consider it their duty to write that Borodin kilogram added. They, probably, from it becomes easier.
"I understand everything with my mind, Nastyusha, just wildly ... I've wanted to be a leader all my life, I wanted to entertain people, make them happy! And now, when I got what I wanted, they find fault with me for every reason. When you are a simple person, only the closest can assess, and outsiders do not interfere with the way you look, with whom you meet and what you do tonight.
- Yes, do not worry you! All public people pass through this. With you, always your friends and your strength of mind. Of course, you are obstinate and proud (I loved you for it and loved it as my own), well, be proud of yourself, because you are a good man, you have achieved everything yourself. With such a character as you, girl-friend, it's simply impossible to get undressed! Let's read less nonsense on the forums and remember that you not only have more problems than an ordinary person, but also have pleasant moments. Well, which of the girls of your age can boast so many fans? Everyone loves you - from a sweet Oscar Karimov to serious uncles in expensive jackets. Who gets so many compliments, how much do you get?
You in fact at us very beautiful, and around of many people who sincerely admire you.
- Yeah, and even in clubs, they shove on purpose, as soon as they realize that before them "the same Borodin" from the TV.
- And we'll push them away and go on. People are all different, very different, and you will see an inadequate reaction, more often than not, especially from girls. Just remember that I'm with you. You're already like my little sister, I'll protect you.
- Yes, what I am the youngest, you me for a couple of months the oldest!
- Now do not argue with the elders!
Nastya and I burst into laughter, and I do not remember any unsuccessful photos, no vicious comments from the members of the forum.
Karinka joined our company a little later. We met with her through friends and very quickly found a common language. Nastya, I kept buzzing ears, which Karina is cool, how she looks like us. One evening we spontaneously got out to the cinema, I dialed Nastya phone number and said: "We are sitting with Karinka in" October ", come." In the end, we did not even look at anything - just sat in a cafe and chatted all the time while the movie was on. At that moment, it became clear that the three of us would be friends, probably all my life.
Karinka came to Nastia's liking, she seemed to be always with us, and I'm incredibly happy about this. We often joke that the three of us work on the project "Dom-2". Karina is aware of all the events, she is watching the program, she is on the set and has her own opinion on each participant. She often comes to us with Nastya to work, after filming, we go to my house, pour a cup of tea and discuss everything that happened over the day.
At the very beginning of the acquaintance, we went to the clubs with the girls, watched every movie premiere and walked together. We are brought together by youth, and common interests, and an active life position, and common dreams. Romantic comedies inspired us to talk about how you want the same beautiful all-consuming love: to put on a white dress and to swear an oath of fidelity to the groom ... We enjoyed what we had and dreamed of more.
But the most important thing in our friendship is that she grew up with us. And now, when we spend much more time and attention on families, we always have something to share with our friends. Both girls are very sympathetic, and not only to me: how can a good person not be supported?

We in life encountered different situations, and every time one started to fall, the other two supported it. Together we are much stronger than people who live somehow apart and rely only on themselves.
It was thanks to my close people that I was able to overcome uncertainty in myself and my powers, and I found a way to put my thoughts in order. Most recently, Nastya and I remembered how I was wounded by critical comments about my appearance, and she gave me a completely unexpected thing. She said that she put herself in my place and realized that she would hardly have managed it. But in order not to frighten me, she did not say a word, like a real friend or an older sister.
During the next two years after taking the tablets, the situation with my weight did not change dramatically. In the regular mode, I continued to find my way, experimented with various diets, combined them with physical activity.
I almost resigned myself to being forever bbw. Negative feedback and caustic comments in the press about my figure stopped me. Producers of the channel, although they reminded me sometimes about one delicate condition of the contract, but still met: to solve the problem of extra pounds I could not. I learned to mask my shortcoming in all ways available to me - with the help of new hairstyles, make-up, clothes. These secrets I will share in one of the following chapters.
In the rest I tried to live, as before: I work hard, read books, meet friends. And so, unexpectedly for me, after one unpleasant incident, my weight came back to normal.
One day my friends and I rested in a nightclub. I danced and had fun. And suddenly it became bad for me - my stomach got very sick, I began to lose consciousness. My friends were frightened and took me to the Botkin hospital. After the initial examination, the doctors suggested that this could be appendicitis. But then it turned out that my ovaries are chilled. I had to do the operation.
I lay in the hospital for two weeks and all this time I was terribly nervous - I experienced real stress.
For a couple of days in the hospital, I plunged into a state that I still do not want to remember.
I felt completely helpless, it was always bad and painful. But the most terrible were not even physical suffering, but spiritual ones.
I did not want to read or watch TV, or - even more so - to study the even hospital ceiling. The only thing that occupied my thoughts was self-interest.
Days and nights, I scolded myself for bringing my body to moral and physical exhaustion. The experiment with tablets and its consequences did not bother me.
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